Fighting in the office - the phenomenon is not as rare as it
seems. Just about them more often than not referred to. Usually they occur
"word for word". In the wording of one of the largest business
newspaper about a year ago, there was a battle of two journalists - a trainee
and staff writer. Who was to blame and what is the reason, it was not possible
to find out, because both wrestlers over in the wording did not appear. A pity:
a postscript at the end of the article "For employees, this material has
been spilled blood" would be highly decorated text.
On the walls of the office a small oil trading companies are
still traces and stains. Once the two oldest employee in the heat of debate on
how to development of the company started throwing each other cups. Of course,
the cup could not fly if one of the employees did not report their opinion of
her husband another.
Office fight, though, and are spontaneous, are striking in
their sophistication, such as one colleague put another in the trash. A
programmer Igor once bitten by a deputy director of the company. "Usually
I'm on the way, but here, as they say, circumstances forced. I said that I was
leaving, and began to gather their belongings, - Igor explained. - A deputy
head of the thought that I have no right to take anything without his permission,
particularly my cup. After these words, I could only give him in the forehead.
" Fight graduate school chief landing with the programmer has made a
strong impression on the staff: all participants froze and watched the battle
motionless. "In the end I took everything that was on the table and walked
away," - concludes the story of Igor.
Chair - the cause of discord
As it turned out, after the "dangerous words," the
main reason for fights in the office chairs are. With respect to these
"problematic" items of furniture you can sometimes learn the true
nature of man. "I once saw a due place to blows two colleagues - says
Svetlana. - Twice we hit each other on the back and pushed the "party to
that fight was considered a friend of, but because friendship is friendship,
and one chair!. The head of the advertising department is trying to reconcile
the girls, but in response I heard that now it is suddenly hit by a car. By the
end of the day, one of the contenders to chair crying and asked whether
opponentki really so strong criminal connections.
Put an end to the dispute boss threatened to fire both when
the office is not silence. second chair was whether purchased is unknown.
But Dmitry coder with difficulty, but still refrained from
beating fellow designers, who regarded his chair as an indicator of high social
status. "I thought that fight at work - not comme il faut", - he
reasoned.
A disgruntled employee, analyst, casting a director of the
company in a chair, which remained barricaded the door to his office.
who fear
According to the office of psychotherapist Artemy Sychev,
many office battles ... are a direct consequence of sedentary work. According
to him, corporate gym membership needed it then, that employees
"dumped" aggression due to muscular effort. "This so-called
telesnoorientirovannaya psychotherapy, - says Artem. - In the absence of
movement in people constantly piling up emotions and as a consequence,
increased irritability ". At the same time, according to experts, people
who are not faced, at 8:00 from their chairs, do not even realize what is the
source of their irritable state.
And the most dangerous people in the office are employees
with a high degree of liability. No wonder regulars office psychotherapists are
employees of the economic security department. They, according to Sychev, often
develop so-called "delusions of material damage", under normal
circumstances is not peculiar to the young bank clerk, as manifested in senile
dementia. The first symptom of delirium material damage - the constant anxiety.
"When on the background of such paranoia someone infringes any thing, such
as a cup or a chair, they can be" blown away "- warns the
psychotherapist.
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